Aurat Ki Muhabbat

Aurat Ki Muhabbat 

Mere Paas Ek Afsurda (Udaas) Shakhs Taweezat Ke Liye Aaya Aur Kehne Laga Ke Maine Pasand Ki Shadi Ki Thi, Lekin Meri Ahliya Ne Zabardasti Talaaq Le Li Halanki Us Ne Humesha Saath Nibhane Ka Pakka Waada Kiya Tha Aur Qasmein Bhi Khayi Thi........, 

Ab Main Us Ke Bighair Reh Nahin Sakta, Mera Koi Hal Nikalein 

Maine Tasalli Dete Huye Kaha Ke Aap Ka Hal Nikalta Hoon, Lekin Us Se Pehle Meri Baat Sun Lein! 

Hazrate Aatika Binte Zaid Ka Nikah Hazrate Abdullah Bin Abu Bakar Siddique Se Hua Tha, Aap Un Se Be Had Muhabbat Karte The, Un Ki Judayi Bilkul Bardasht Na Karte, Isi Wajah Se Jab Baaz Jungo Mein Shareek Na Ho Sake To Sayyiduna Siddique -e- Akbar Ne Kaha Ke Apni Biwi Ko Talaq De Do!

Aap Ne Walid Ki Ita'at Mein Na Chahte Huye Bhi Talaq (Rajayi) To De Di, Lekin Shiddat -e- Muhabbat Mein Ash'aar Padhte Rehte The

 

Ek Din Sayyiduna Siddique -e- Akbar Ne Suna, Wo Keh Rahe The :

Aye Atika! Main Tujhe Us Waqt Tak Nahin Bhulunga Jab Tak Mashriq Se Raushni Nikalti Rahegi Aur Tauq Daar Qumri (Ek Parinda) Ku Ku Karti Rahegi

Aye Atika! Har Din Raat Mera Dil Tujhe Yaad Karta Hai, Un Jazbaat Ki Wajah Se Jo Mere Andar Chhupe Hain

Ye Ash'aar Sun Kar Sayyiduna Siddique -e- Akbar Par Riqqat Taari Ho Gayi Aur Aap Ne Farmaya : (Talaq Se) Ruju Kar Lo! 

Kuchh Arse Baad Jab Hazrate Abdullah Radiallaho Ta'ala Anho Shaheed Ho Gaye To Hazrate Aatika Ne Un Ka Marsiya Kaha, Jis Ka Ek Sher Ye Tha :

فآلیت لاتنفک عینی حزینة

علیک، ولا ینفک جلدی اغبرا

Maine Qasam Khayi Hai Ke Meri Aankhein Aap Par Humesha Royengi Aur Mera Badan Ghubaar Aalud Rahega

Phir Sayyiduna Umar Faruque Ne Hazrate Aatika Ko Paigham -e- Nikah Bheja, Jise Aap Ne Qabool Kar Liya

Walime Par Hazrate Ali Bhi Maujood The, Aap Kehne Lage Ke Ameerul Momineen! Ijazat Dein Main Aatika Se Baat Karna Chahta Hoon 

Ijazat Milne Par Aap Ne Darwaze Ki Oat Mein Khade Ho Kar Kaha :

یاعدیة نفسھا این قولک

Aye Apni Jaan Ki Dushman, Tera Ye Qaul Kahan Gaya Ke "(Aye Abdullah) Maine Qasam Khayi Hai Ke Meri Aankhein Aap Par Humesha Royengi Aur Mera Badan Ghubaar Aalud Rahega" 

Ye Sun Kar Hazrate Aatika Ro Padi

Sayyiduna Umar Kehne Lage :

Aye Abul Hasan! Aap Ko Ye Baat Dohrane Ki Kya Zaroorat Pesh Aa Gayi?

کل النساء یفعلن ھذا

Saari Auratein Isi Tarah Karti Hain

(انظر: اسدالغابة فی معرفة الصحابة، باب العین، ج5، ص337، ر7088، دارالمعرفة بیروت) 

Maine Kaha Ke Is Mein Humare Liye Bahut Kuchh Sabaq Hai! 

Aurat Ke Behte Aansu Aur Muhabbat Bhare Alfaaz Par Bahut Zyada Etimaad Karne Ke Bajaye Aqlo Samajh Se Kaam Lete Huye, Apne Aap Ko Qaabu Mein Rakhna Chahiye 

Daana Kehte Hain :

1- Khana Jab Tak Hazam Na Ho Jaaye Us Ki Tareef Nahin Karni Chahiye 

2- Dost Se Jab Tak Qarz Na Maang Lein Us Par Bharosa Nahin Karna Chahiye 

3- Aur Aurat Ke Marne Se Pehle Tareef Nahin Karni Chahiye 

(انظر: المستطرف فی کل فن مستظرف، الباب الثانی فی العقل والذکاء، ص20، ط دارالکتب العلمیة بیروت، س1436ھ)

Kyunki Khana, Hazam Hone Se Pehle Pet Aur Maada Bhi Kharaab Kar Sakta Hai, Is Liye Qabil -e- Tareef Usi Waqt Hoga Jab Hazam Ho Jaaye

Aur Baato Baato Mein Dosti Ke Daawe Har Koi Kar Sakta Hai, Lekin Jab Qarz Maanga Jaaye To Maloom Hota Hai Wo Kitna Mukhlis Hai

Aur Aurat Zindagi Mein Kisi Mod Par Bhi Wafa Badal Sakti Hai, Is Liye Marne Se Pehle Tareefo Tauseef Se Parhez Karna Chahiye 

Aaj Kal Humare Naujawano Ki Ek Tadaad Aurato Ki Dasi Huyi Hai, Allah Paak Un Ke Haal Par Raham Farmaye 

Be Inteha Muhabbat Sirf Aur Sirf Rasool -e- Paak ﷺ Se Karein, Baaqi Sab Muhabbatein Jhooti Hain

Allama Qaari Luqman Shahid