Rishta Jod Dein Ya Phir Tod Dein?

Rishta Jod Dein Ya Phir Tod Dein?

Irshade Baari Ta'ala Hai : 

وَ یَقْطَعُوْنَ مَاۤ اَمَرَ اللّٰهُ بِهٖۤ اَنْ یُّوْصَلَ وَ یُفْسِدُوْنَ فِی الْاَرْضِۙ اُولٰٓىٕكَ لَهُمُ اللَّعْنَةُ وَ لَهُمْ سُوْٓءُ الدَّارِ (الرعد:25)

“Aur Jise Jodne Ka Allah Ne Hukm Farmaya Hai Use Kaat'te Hain Aur Zameen Mein Fasad Phailate Hain, Unke Liye Lanat Hi Hai Aur Unke Liye Bura Ghar Hai.”

Rasoolullah ﷺ Ne Farmaya :

Jis Gunaah Ki Saza Dunya Mein Bhi Jald Hi De Di Jaye Aur Uske Liye Aakhirat Mein Bhi Azab Rahe Wo Baghawat Aur Qata Rahmi Se Badh Kar Nahi (Yaani Ye Gunah Yahan Aur Akhirat Dono Mein Azab Ka Saman Hai)

(ترمذی، کتاب صفة القيامة، ٢٢٩/٤، الحديث : ٢٥١٩)

Yaani Ke Aise Kitne Log Hain Jo Rishto Mein Daraar Paida Karne Ki Koshish Karte Hain Aur Kuchh Aise Hain Jo Aapasi Rishtedaro Mein Aise Mashware Pesh Karte Hain Jin Se Ek Achha Kaam Bante Bante Ruk Jaata Hai

Wo Is Baat Ka Thoda Bhi Khayal Nahi Karte Ke Unke Mashware Islaah Ke Naam Par Rishte Jodne Ka Nahi Todne Ka Kaam Kar Rahe Hain.

Dusre Wo Hain Jo Unki Baaton Ko Patthar Ki Lakeer Samajh Kar Rishto Ko Jodne Waale Amal Se Duri Ikhtiyar Kar Lete Hain.

Hakeemul Ummat Mufti Ahmad Yaar Khan Naeemi Rahmatullah A'laih Ek Hadees Ke Tahat Farmate Hain Ke Musalmano Se Achha Gumaan Karna Un Par Badgumani Na Karna Ye Bhi Achhi Ibadat Mein Se Ek Hai.

(مراۃ المناجیح، ۶۲۱/۶)

Ek Martaba Hazrat Abu Huraira Radiallahu A'nhu Ahadeese Mubarakah Bayan Kar Rahe The To Farmaya :

Wo Shakhs Jo Rishtedari Todne Waala Ho Wo Hamari Mehfil Mein Se Uth Jaaye!

Ek Naujawan Uth Kar Apni PhuPhi Ke Haan Gaya Kayi Saal Purana Jhadga Khatam Kiya Aur Phuphi Ko Raazi Kar Liya.

(الزواجر، قطع الرحم، ۱۵۲/۲)

Rishtedari Ek Bahut Pyara Ehsas Hai Jise Mehsus Karne Ki Zaroorat Hai. Zara Zara Si Baato Par Rishtedaari Ki Dor Tod Dena Durust Nahi. Is Se Jahan Ittehad Pe Farq Padta Hai Wahin Kahi Dil Bhi Tut Jaate Hain Jo Ke Bahut Buri Baat Hai. Rishte Kijiye, Rishtedaaro Se Achhi Tarah Pesh Aaiye Aur Yahi Deene Islam Ka Bhi Mizaj Hai.

Kisi Ko Ehsase Kamtari Ka Shikar Na Hone Dijiye Aur Jodne Ka Kaam Kijiye Na Ke Todne Ka. Is Dunya Mein Akele To Kisi Ne Nahi Rehna Phir Kyun Ham Todne Ka Kaam Karein? Aaj Ham Aise Karenge To Kal Zaroor Hamein Iska Jawab Aur Hisab Dena Hoga.

Allah Ta'ala Hamein Rishto Ki Ahmiyat Ko Samajhne Aur Rishte Jodne Ki Taufeeq De. Allah Ham Musalmano Ko Ek Jism Ki Tarah Muttahid Banaye. Rabbe Qadeer Apne Nabi, Unki Azwaaj Aur Sahaba-e-Kiraam Ke Darmiyan Qaim Hone Waale Pyare Rishto Ke Sadqe Hamein Jodne Waalo Ki Saf Mein Rakhe Aur Todne Ke Gunaah Se Bachaye. Aameen

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