Mera Shauhar Kaisa Ho? 

Har Ladki Ki Apne Hone Waale Shauhar Ke Baare Mein Kuchh Na Kuchh Khwahishaat Hoti Hain, Kuchh Sapne Hote Hain Ke Wo Kaisa Hona Chahiye 
Pehle Ladkiyo Ki Soch Alag Thi Lekin Ab Filmein Dekh Dekh Kar, Bazaaro Mein Ghoom Ghoom Kar Ladkiyo Ka Dimagh Kharaab Ho Chuka Hai Aur Un Ki Pasand Ko Bhi Laqwa Maar Chuka Hai

Abhi Aap Dekhein To Ladkiyo Ko Aisa Shauhar Chahiye Jo Stylish Ho, Dadhi Waghaira Na Ho, Bhale Hi Ek Laakh Rupay Aur Ek Gaadi Le Lekin Kunwara Ho Taaki Poora Poora Pyaar De Sake, Filmein Dikhane Le Jaaye, Long Drive Par Le Jaaye, Melo Thelo Mein Ghumaye Aur Parde Ki Bilkul Baat Na Kare
Ye Wo Baatein Hain Jin Ki Wajah Se Ladkiyo Ki Aur Un Se Jude Logon Ki Zindagi Bad Haal Ho Rahi Hai 

Imam Ghazali Rahimahullah Likhte Hain Ke (Jab Kisi Ladki Ke Paas Nikah Ka Paigham Aaye To Wo) Apne Ghar Ke Qabile Etimad Mard Ko Kahe Ke Wo Paigham Dene Waale Ladke Ke Deen, Aqeede, Saahib -e- Murawwat Hone Aur Waade Ka Pakka Hone Ke Mutalliq Malumaat Haasil Kare, 
Aur Ye Maloom Kare Ke Wo Pabandi Se Ba Jama'at Namaz Padhta Hai Ya Nahin, 
Aur Ye Ke Wo Apne Karobar Aur Tijarat Mein Mukhlis Hai Ya Nahin, 
Aur Us Ke Deen Aur Seerat Ko Dekhe, Maal, Daulat Aur Shohrat Ko Nahin 

(انظر: آدابِ، مترجم، ص47) 

Ye Baatein Aaj Kal Nahin Dekhi Jaati Balki Pehla Sawal Ye Hota Hai Ke Ladka Kitna Kamata Hai

Allah Ta'ala Humein Saliheen Ki Itteba Ki Toufique Ata Farmaye

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